No Form, No Structure, No Significance

So, in this reality, there are certain points of view where a form has to be a certain way or something has to be done in a certain way. This is the 5th key to total freedom found in the book, “The 10 Keys to Total Freedom” (www.AccessDave.com/10Keys) by Gary Douglass and Dr. Dain Heer.

Structure is a way of constructing or organizing something so that whatever it is, runs in a specific way or manner. Significance is where we give something meaning or a level of importance. We create significance when we make something meaningful, important or consequential. These things create limitation when we try to create based upon the way things are done in this reality. What if we could create something different, something greater?
In the area of relationships, let’s say that you are in a relationship with someone. We all have certain ideas as to what a relationship is supposed to be. You have a “significant other”. If the other person is significant, what does that make you? How much of you do you have to put away when you make another person significant? What if they could be your enjoyable other?

The form of relationships is based on some interesting points of view that you have as to what it should look like. Do you think that maybe the other person might have a different point of view as to the form of the relationship? And, what about all of your friends? They all have their ideas as to what a relationship should look like.
What if you could create something greater and better? What if you could go beyond the form, structure and significance of what you see in this reality? How many people do you know that have great relationships?
A structure that you might apply is, “Our relationship is going to be perfect.” How much judgment do you have to do to decide or determine if the relationship is perfect or not?

Couldn’t you just enjoy your enjoyable other and say, “Wow, this relationship is great today.”
We enter into a relationship and look around and see how it is being done and we compare and judge whether we are living up to the forms and structures we see around us. Every judgment you use creates a form, a structure and a significance. With no form, no structure and no significance, there’s no judgment. You get to be the embodiment of interesting points of view. Doesn’t that feel so much lighter?

So, you might be asking, How can I have a business if I have no structure? Most businesses that really work have systems in place. And, when a system doesn’t work, the system can be modified until you create something that works. A structure is something that is fixed in place. You have a structure when you try to make everything work within the structure. And, you think you have no other choice.

You might want to start creating systems and start living from choice. You can choose beyond form, structure and significance.

David Miller

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About the writer: Dave Miller

David Miller 248-770-9154. David is presently a Certified Access Consciousness Bars™ Facilitator and Certified Body Process facilitator. Teaches Bars Classes and does individual healing sessions, a student of personal growth since the early 1970’s, offering Pragmatic tools to change things in your life that you haven’t been able to change until now with Access Consciousness® www.AccessDave.com

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