By Barbra White
In patriarchal-infected sacred sexuality and intimacy teachings, it is commonly taught that the man is the calm presence or “container” to a woman’s feminine wildness.
Women don’t need their wildness organized or contained. Women are already overly domesticated into submission. This relationship dynamic keeps people disempowered and caught in power struggles.
Why a power struggle? Because each person is trying to unconsciously “get” from the other person what they need to realize in themselves.
A woman needs to realize her healthy masculine to have an insulated, safe radiance of her sensual Divine Feminine (yin)
A man needs to awaken his Feminine to be able to express his Sacred masculine (yang) in power-with versus power-over.
Nature demonstrates this principle: womb and sperm. Research shows a woman’s body’s chemicals and frequency pull in the sperm. She literally sets the tone and frequency. She’s not an empty vessel waiting for his deposit. She’s active in the co-creation
Yet…Women have been taught to be thermostats: “Taking the temperature” of everyone around them to gain “permission” to be themselves.
The bottom line is that women have been taught to be victims. Instead of setting the frequency and knowing the power of our loving, we shrink, appease, and apologize for our existence.
Learn to reclaim the power of your vibrational frequency and how this actually creates the soil or the energy for a man (or masculine essence partner) to awaken.
My partner had to become embodied (yin) and emotionally self-regulated to come into a his scared masculine. I had to reclaim my boundaries and express my voice (yang) to radiate my Divine Feminine safely.
Once this crucible of self-awakening is crossed, the woman (or female-essenced partner) holds the vibrational love womb power for men to awaken fully.
She sets the energy or “soil”: he produces the “vegetable .”It is the power of the Magdalene to the Christ.
Unfortunately, this doesn’t happen because women have been taught to be sacrificial lambs. We have learned not to ask directly for what we need and embrace the juice of our desires.
Women lose the holiness of their feminine intuitive knowing by allowing themselves to be gaslighted as “nags .”Without our feminine Yoni-Gut intention honored, a woman becomes powerless.
It’s time to speak, act, and live from your queen, dear one. You have the power within you already. You are hardwired for greatness.
Masculine and feminine (yin and Yang): This is NOT about gender. Masculine and feminine energies are frequencies within us. If you identify as non-binary trans, gay, etc……..… these frequencies still operate in our consciousness.
Ladies and feminine essence beings, our sensitivity and intuitive knowing, were given to us so we could lead the frequency.
We are the container.
We are the leader. You know you are. You can intuitively sense when he’s not honest. It’s in our Yoni-Gut powers. Your power is deep in your sensual body, wild shamanic nature.
The feminine or yin has been cut away from our consciousness. This cutting away has hurt men even more than women, turning them into emotional babies that “gain control” by gaslighting women.
Men, we need you to self-regulate and grow your emotional intelligence. You can “Romanticize” this and call it “containing” her feminine. But understand we don’t need a savior. Only little girls need that.
Queens need a man who can be honest, communicate empathically, and keep agreements—a King.
The real power starts in the yin (emotions, body awareness, nature. Expressing (yang) without awareness (yin) is violence towards yourself and others.
The princess archetype keeps the queen juicy. However, she must speak from her queen archetype to set the tone. Similarly, the king needs to be aware of his little boy or lover and speak from his King archetype.
Women need to step it up and be the leaders that Creation intended. The feminine is rising on the planet. It is the forgotten Magdalene-Christ power.
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