by Miche Lame
It sometimes seems like life is a spiral, and we go through the same experiences over and over. Perhaps it is time to take a look back at our journey, hopefully caught in journal form, to see what we’ve actually experienced this past year. Perhaps the Creator is putting experiences into our physical and emotional world, vibrations, so that we can grow and learn while in this incarnation and get off the wheel of Karma.
We know that the universe has our back. We know that through whatever experiences we have, we are safe. Therefore, it’s safe to explore those past experiences and learn from them. These experiences are just learning lessons, times when we can choose differently when a similar situation arises. And, until we do, we just get those experiences in different guises over and over again. Every experience is a learning experience. And, as we know, growth is not an event; it’s a journey.
By examining our past experiences, especially those from childhood, we can grow and let go of old, outdated habits and fears that hold us back from our greatness and self-actualization. As a client told me today, “this feeling is familiar” regarding feeling rejected after not being invited to a party “everyone else was.” Upon exploration, she remembered her parents not having a birthday party for her and, on top of that, not getting invited to her friend’s birthday party, and felt everyone else was. She felt left out. She then decided she wasn’t good enough, unworthy to have friends, and that was the beginning of her withdrawal from life so she wouldn’t get rejected again.
Chances are, those experiences had nothing to do with her as a person; they had to do with her parents, and possibly her invite got lost. But, she took it personally, as most of us would, and then let that start ruling her life. As she withdrew, she was invited to fewer and fewer events, resulting in what she feared most – a feeling of rejection and unworthiness.
The Creator made all of us good enough and worthy. There is nothing we need to do to prove ourselves. We are already good enough. We are already worthy and lovable. We are never left out of the Creator’s grace and love, even when we turn a blind eye and ear. All we have to do is go within, and we can find that connection and grace.
Love and Light,
Miche Lame’, M.A.L.L.P
